5 Tips for Talking About Giving Around Christmas


As the Christmas season approaches, churches welcome a diverse array of visitors and guests eager to partake in the warmth of community and celebration. For pastors like you, this presents a unique opportunity to engage the congregation in conversations about giving, sharing the spirit of generosity that defines this joyous time. Finding the right “giving language” is crucial during the holidays, ensuring that the message resonates with both longtime members and those new to the congregation.

Emphasize the Joy of Giving

During the holiday season, it’s essential to focus on the joy that giving brings rather than framing it as an obligation. Encourage your congregation to view generosity as a source of joy, emphasizing the positive impact it has on both the giver and the receiver. Use language that conveys the happiness that comes from sharing blessings with others.

“This season, let’s embrace the joy of giving. Each act of generosity is a celebration of the love that binds us together. In sharing, we find the true spirit of the holidays.”

Connect Giving to the Season’s Message

Tie the act of giving to the deeper meaning of the holiday season. Remind the congregation of the values of love, compassion, and selflessness that the season represents. Connect financial contributions to the church with the broader message of spreading goodwill and making a positive impact on the world.

“As we celebrate the birth of love and hope, let our giving be a reflection of the profound generosity that defines this season. In our financial contributions, we become instruments of positive change in our community and beyond.”

Acknowledge the Diversity of Giving

Recognize that people have different ways of giving, and financial contributions are just one form. Acknowledge the various talents, skills, and time that individuals contribute to the church community. Emphasize that everyone, regardless of their circumstances, can make a meaningful impact.

“Giving comes in many forms — a warm smile, a helping hand, or a generous heart. Let us celebrate the diverse ways we contribute to our church family. Your unique gifts are valued and appreciated.”

Highlight the Impact of Giving

Share specific stories that illustrate the impact of the congregation’s generosity. Whether it’s supporting a local charity, funding community projects, or helping those in need, concrete examples help people connect their contributions to real-world change.

“Last year, your contributions allowed us to [insert specific project or initiative]. Together, we made a tangible difference in the lives of those in our community. Let’s continue this tradition of impact as we enter the holiday season.”

Express Gratitude Without Pressure

Express gratitude for the congregation’s support without applying undue pressure. Use language that communicates appreciation for the community’s generosity and trust in their commitment to the church’s mission.

“Your generosity sustains the vibrant spirit of our church. As we express our gratitude, let it be known that your giving is a personal choice. Your support, in whatever form, is deeply appreciated.”

With the right “giving language” for the holiday season, you have the opportunity as senior pastor to inspire and unite your congregation in the spirit of generosity. By emphasizing joy, connecting giving to the season’s message, acknowledging diversity, highlighting impact, and expressing gratitude without pressure, you can create a welcoming atmosphere that resonates with both long-standing members and newcomers alike. This holiday season, let the language of giving reflect the love, compassion, and community that define the true meaning of the holidays.

Emma Tarp, Author

About the Author

Emma Tarp is a writer and worship leader based in Minneapolis, MN. On her best days, she's highlighter-deep in a good book or teaching herself to sew. On her other best days, she's helping passionate folks and inspired businesses put words to their work. Find out more at emmatarp.com.

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